Relationship In You or You In Relationship.

If you are reading this post, Kindly read it till the end.

(This poetry is written in Hindi)

“Tumhe kya khabar thi

Ki kitna maana tha tumhe

Jab tum door the tab

Kitna chaaha tha tumhe

Sochti hun ye waqt hai ya hum kuch aise hi hain

Jo badalte badalte na jaane kab yun hi bicchde hain

Jaane kahan gye, wo pal, wo lafz, wo jazbaat, wo khushi, wo gum

Jinme kabhi na tum the ya main, jinhe jeete the toh sirf hum or hum..

Aaj hum se pehle tum or main aata hai

Samjhte-samjhaate hum se tum or tum se main, vibhakt ho chuka hai

Aaina samajh kar tum mein khud ko dekha tha

Ki aaj vo pratibimb “main tum nahin” keh kar

Khin aur chal diya hai, khin aur chal diya hai…”

 

How many times have you failed to understand the reason behind such relationships?

This is true that relationships go through all phases, like a wave and reason being that relationships are a phenomenon, just like life.

But what makes us weaker, are not the relationships, but our perception, our cognition of attaching our identity with the relationships or with the people we are in relationships.

Here, some do forget that relationship is because of you, and not you are because of relationship. This is the kind of error one makes, by dissolving ones own identity into the others.

Simply try to think once, if you keep your identity beside your relationship then when relationship goes through ups and downs it might impact you, but would not be able to vanish you. As, your identity will not nullify if the relationship goes vulnerable.

When in hunger you eat your self then, in damage you will rescue yourself. YOU are your own warrior.  Because if you have the guts to let yourself suffer, then you’ve got the greater binge to let yourself live happily.

Share and motivate them, who need to trust them selves.

The Expression of Openness and Void. (#Not a poetry)

How it feels to breath with openness

In mind, in heart, in soul..

Where the wonders and miracles meet me

And disasters and vulnerabilities are immense in cues

What shall I tell in words or how shall I express without them..

As an artist with the love of expression

Or as a writer by putting forward the best possible appropriate combinations of letters..

With openness comes choices, comes chances

With openness comes freedom,

But freedom always has its opportunity cost.

So does this cost be the breath I intake, or the breath I exhale..

What lies or what I hold after paying the cost by my breath

Is it the freedom again or emptiness as void inside, as void inside….?

Is it just the expression of openness and void or a question to self on my life or for my life ..??

 

 

 

 

The Magical Cave

“With a bunch of friends I joined one of the martial art camps, which were organised on a monthly basis, under the guidance of the renowned Shaolin warier monk. This time it was held on one of the islands of Maldives. The mythological story of the island goes with the rumours of a magical cave where the Goddess resides.

Fortunately, our guide informed that it is not just a rumour, instead the cave is truly magical and legendary in its own ways. We accepted our present opportunity and decided to visit that cave. The cave was considered to be a holy place, and is opened with the help of a Mantra. Entering into it, we found the blessed stone through which the Goddess arrives, and takes away the spirit of that human who devotes its soul to the Goddess.

Hearing this story changed something in me. Something I was unaware of. But since we came back from the cave, I had an unusual feeling about myself. While preparing ourselves for getting started with the training part, I just wanted to flow in the moment and be with just my self. I closed my eyes, with motion i meditated and it took a form of dance which I lived as of those moments.

After I opened my eyes, I saw one of my friends in tears. She had the realisation of her deepest truth, from which she was escaping so far. And this was a hint for me, this was time to be the eye witness of that power which is bigger than all. I mentioned to my another friend to inform my family members and my partner about how much I love them and left.

I walked back into that magical cave & this time it opened without any Mantra. As if, I was supposed to be there in that moment.

I entered the cave, walked through and found the stone of Goddess. While closing my eyes I wished to be taken away, I prayed with all my devotion to leave my body and just be the spirit in my truest form. The stone of Goddess shined bright and brighter, I was witnessing the power I have never met before. And with steps I walked in to that light….I walked into that light…. “

THE CHOICE

Life has it’s own way of dealing you. It hits you hard on your face when you try to escape it. The more you will try, the harder it will hit. Many people have options to choose for themselves and many don’t. Many don’t ever recognize what opportunities time has brought for them. And many forget to exult for what they have with them.

This unwanting episode in their lives when gains importance, they fall short to hold it’s worth. As once it was their own but with time it goes through several editions and now its completely unrecognizable.

But the beauty is, those with love may still have their chances to touch its worth and embrace themselves. All one has to do is make a choice. Prioritize.

So, are you prepared for this? Fear of change, discomforting thoughts and uneasy start. These will leave you perplexed. But that’s fine, it’s how life is. If you don’t want life to hit you hard, then you have to hit life harder. Yep, that’s the rule my friend. All these fears will fade away gradually so fear is just an illusion.

The important point to ponder upon before making a choice is, “Are you ready to pay the opportunity cost for your choice?”. Think wisely. Think more than twice.

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Communicate with Life

Closed eyes, pounding heartbeat, insufficient breathes..a time which leave us all imprisoned in our own mind. This is not a heart wrenching story, it is a glimpse of a path towards the discovery of self which will let you to communicate with life.

When darkest of the dark you see, you feel the essence of someone’s presence. That shadow dives in with you, with your mind, your will, your energy, your soul. It attracts you so much that you forget to focus on reality and the disguises of deception as truth crushes your spirit apart.
Now this shadow could be anything. Any problem in your life could be defined as the same either it’s hopelessness towards life or the moment of giving up in job, relations or life. Once we focus on that shadow, it spirals around us in a way that sinking in is all what happens. The words to express that feeling has no worth unless it is felt!
But we are fooled by that shadow. If it’s the darkest of the dark, we must realize that there is presence of light all around us due to which we are recognising that shadow. Inspite of celebrating that light we continue making one mistake i.e. focusing too much, narrowing our concentration on that shadow.
Whereas the truth remains, light was always with you, around you, in you..isn’t that’s why we have a shadow of our own?☺
Sun is always for you. Just take step outside the room you are imprisoned in. Close eyes, heart pounding ( which continues to call you out from the prison, assuring that you are alive) and insufficient breathes turn sufficient when fear of loss is converted with love towards life. The words to express this feeling of being connected with the universe has no worth unless it is felt! 😉
Changing the view point of your frame could change the painting itself. Be brave and listen to what life speaks silently.
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