If you are reading this post, Kindly read it till the end.
(This poetry is written in Hindi)
“Tumhe kya khabar thi
Ki kitna maana tha tumhe
Jab tum door the tab
Kitna chaaha tha tumhe
Sochti hun ye waqt hai ya hum kuch aise hi hain
Jo badalte badalte na jaane kab yun hi bicchde hain
Jaane kahan gye, wo pal, wo lafz, wo jazbaat, wo khushi, wo gum
Jinme kabhi na tum the ya main, jinhe jeete the toh sirf hum or hum..
Aaj hum se pehle tum or main aata hai
Samjhte-samjhaate hum se tum or tum se main, vibhakt ho chuka hai
Aaina samajh kar tum mein khud ko dekha tha
Ki aaj vo pratibimb “main tum nahin” keh kar
Khin aur chal diya hai, khin aur chal diya hai…”
How many times have you failed to understand the reason behind such relationships?
This is true that relationships go through all phases, like a wave and reason being that relationships are a phenomenon, just like life.
But what makes us weaker, are not the relationships, but our perception, our cognition of attaching our identity with the relationships or with the people we are in relationships.
Here, some do forget that relationship is because of you, and not you are because of relationship. This is the kind of error one makes, by dissolving ones own identity into the others.
Simply try to think once, if you keep your identity beside your relationship then when relationship goes through ups and downs it might impact you, but would not be able to vanish you. As, your identity will not nullify if the relationship goes vulnerable.
When in hunger you eat your self then, in damage you will rescue yourself. YOU are your own warrior. Because if you have the guts to let yourself suffer, then you’ve got the greater binge to let yourself live happily.
Share and motivate them, who need to trust them selves.